There May Be Snow on the Roof, But there is a Fire in the Fireplace

This entry is a little different than those of the past. This entry is more about the gay population in general and not so much the Dom/Master /slave/sub type. This is an entry based on societals view on a very tough subject. Growing Old! Or growing older I should say. Growing older isan't exactly what we live for. I mean it is something that happens to us with out trying. You can't stop the clock as it were. Which begs to question, why all the discrimination against getting older? No where is that discrimination so prevalent as it is in the gay culture. It is as if turning 40 makes you invisible ands you no longer are perceived as having feelings or that you matter anymore. What is even worse, is if you are single. Then you are also perceived as not being sexual anymore or wanting to have sex. You suddenly become an unviable person to have a relationship with. Whether you are a top or a bottom or both, you don't seem worthy of getting any attention form those that you wish to have a LTR with. What astounds me, is that at some point and time the very ones that are discriminating become the discriminated. The younger generations seem to forget that they will also be your age if they make it that far! Age should just be seen as a number and not as the determining factor in whether you have a right to exist and have sex.You are suddenly not allowed to have feelings or any sexual desire. That, we all know, is ridiculous. It amazes me when a Dom shows disinterest or even disgust if a sub a few years older(5-10yrs) shows any interest in them. Sometimes to the point of being rude about it. It is even more amazing to me when a Dom 50+ yrs old won't even consider dating or talking to someone if they are over the age of 35 or 40. When it only makes sense to me to be dating someone with 10-15 yrs of each other. After all, I have said it before and it is worth repeating, what does a 55yr old have in common with a 20yr old. They both have a thing for Britney Spears? If you can't relate to something other than in the bedroom, then it is no wonder that you are single and can't find a Dom or sub. I personally thing that 40 -65 yr olds are more sexy than a 20 yr old. To me being sexy is about the WHOLE person, not just whether or not he looks like a model or has a big dick. I have seen some hot jocks that were in there 50's and 60's. It does give pause to think aboput it the next time you go to a site to try and try to find someone to date. Well as always, I have gone on long enough for now. If you know of anyone that might be interested in the blog then by all means give them the address. If you think we may have something in common and want to get to know me better, you can reach me at raven15@consolidated.net Have a GREAT Day!