Name it and I'll Tell You What To Feed IT

Tghere has been alot of talk about the game players and all on the net. I have spoken with several Masters and slaves about this very thing. They are to the point where they aren't looking anymore because they fveel no one knos what a relationship is. I think they may have a point. I think that many Masters and slaves both don't know what that is. I have to say a Master that I know of said it best. A relationshiop is about building something together for you both to enjoy with each other. The sex should be secondary. Unfortunately our society as a whole has made sex the focal point and definition(wrongly so)of a relationship. I have always said that if Sex was what makes and defines a relationship, then I could have a deep and meaningful relationship with the produce section of my local grocery store!I mean let's face it. Sex doesn't require any thought or effort to have. You don't even have to have an emotional connection with the other person. a relationship on the other hand takes effort and work. It is about sharing and paying the bills and living the way BOTH Master and slave or sub wants to live. You have to share a common goal and be willing to work for it. Unfortunattely in our self gratification NOW Society, that point has been lost. The generation gap is taking it's toll. anyone 40 or younger usually doesn't know what it means to be involved with someone. The key word is involved. Involved in more than sex but involved in the other person's life. so when a Dom or Master fo 50+ wants a sub 18-35 depending on the mautrity leve, they will get someone that thinks that a relationship is about sex. they seem to think that they will have sex with someone and see igf they are worthwhile to be with. That isn't they way to have a lasting asnd true relationship. It takes several chats and pkone calls to get to know a person before you are willing to meet and have sex. If you think that sex is what a relationship is, then you must think life is supposed to be az 24/7 porn flick! This is why a relationship with someone close to your age is best. You have something in common growing up and can talk to each other , other than saying "Fuck me SIR".You don't run when the first time things get tough or the two must make sacrifice and compromise . well that is all I am going to say for now. But it is something, whether you are str8 or gay, to think about. I have been on my soapbox enough. weell as always, if you like what I have said or you have read all the entries and have an idea about what I am like and want to contact me you can. the address is raven15@consolidated.net or hit me up in the chat room.