Oh The Vanity of it All!

I know that I have talked about this before but thought it needed to be mentioned again. Our society has become youth driven and looks orientated to the destruction of love and happiness in the world. I will explain what I mean. It seems that no matter the chat room, whether it is leather or not, the same thing prevails. Everyone is looking for a Colt model to be with and sometimes forget to look at themselves. Every Dom/Master that I have talked with is looking for a younger twink sub/slave. The problem with that, is that outside of the play time, there is a great clash of culture awareness. It doesn't matter if you are a slave or a Master the difference in cultural relativity will be apparent outside of the playroom/bedroom. The difference in relativiy of cultural figures and the significance of them is lost. As well as the importance of certain world events. The interest gap can be enormous. This can lead to little to talk outside of the bedroom. Making the relationship doomed from the start. If the Dom/Master is in a teaching and mentoring role that is great. However, it will depend on the sub/slave being receptive to that mentoring if it will work or not. Many Doms and subs are missing out by making an age difference as a criteria to whether or not to serve or be served by someone. From the many twink subs i have talked to, the reason for the age difference they require is about establishment. They want someone that is established and has material things already that they would like to have and use. Basicaly, most are looking for a Sugar Daddy/Master. They feel they are entitled to have what ever the Dom has and will use the Dom. This isn't the basis to have a relationship with anyone. We as human beiongs need love and emotional connection with the person that we are with. That is why a Natural born slave, such as myself, or a natural born Dom/Master will have a need to serve or be served and love the other person for being what they are. Many Masters/Doms wonder why they can't find a slave that will serve them for a long period, when what they are seeking is right there under their noses but is 35+ instead of 18+. The same can be said for slaves/subs. They will wonder why they can't find a Master/Dom to serve for a longterm when they don't look at the younger Master/Doms becuase they don't have allot of material things. In addition, they wonder why, when they run into Masters/Doms that want them to work and help with the financial end of a relationship. They feel they are entittled to be taken care of just for existing. I find this to be unrealistic and quite honestly a very bad lack of character. That brings me to my next wonder.
It amazes me the amount of people that are overweight and out of shape that are looking for the colt model and nothing else will do. They then wonder why they never can find anyone interested in them. i admit that I let myself go for awhile, but iam woprking out now and doing everything I can to be a sub/slave that a Master would be pround to have. I have and am losing weight and getting back into the gym shape I was in a few years ago.I do it for myself as well as to be more attractive. Usually a man that worksout, eats right, exercises and takes care of himself, wants someone that does the same. I find that when a man takes care of himself he is hot no matter what the age. I have seen some very hot and sexy 60yo Masters/Doms that I would have no ploblem serving. Yet, there are doms and subs that don't take care of themselves and think that a muscular man should be interested in them. Don't get me wrong. We all have our types that turn us on. I am not discounting the men out there that find big men sexy(chubby chasers). I think that is great if that is what turns you on. The Bears and muscled men I have talked with, whether they are doms/Masters or slaves/subs seem to want someone that is the same as they for a partner. It is amazing to me the amount of Dom/sub relationships that don't occur when both parties are in the same shape(alittle out of shape) and would match up in desires and wants from each other, but don't get together. Why? Because of vanity. They are either close in age or they are looking for the colt model that is rare in any instance. I myself would like to find a man that is in shape or working on it( not a Colt model, but would take one if he came along) and that we can workout together. Building a bond as well as a relationship while doing that and being on the journey to better health together.
Well enough with the soapbox. If you have any questions or comments feel free to send me a message. If you are a Master that is intersted in meeting, read the blog from the beginning to present to know more about me. Then contact me at Raven15@consolidated.net