Say It Aint So!!!!

Well men, in talking with some of the Masters and SIRS it seems the age thing is in full effect. Many Masters and Sirs are feeling the age discrimination as well as the slaves when it comes to finding what we want and need as natural born Master/slaves and Dom/subs. I personally don't know why that would be a problem for a Dom/Sir, as i have always found men in their 40's - 60's the sexiest. There is something about the level of masculinity and sexual energy that exudes from the men in this age group. I have never found a young man, not matter how muscled, to be as sexy in leather as an older man is. Of course, I am a 110% bottom so that should not be a surprise. I think the problem is the same for our elder Masters that it is for the elder slaves, we aren't the young "Colt porno models" that seem to be the ideal that many aspire to have. I find that a bit dumb because- A. you are limiting yourself to a very narrow few. and B. because being that model has nothing to do with sexiness as far as I'm concerned. I have seem some gorgeous men that were hot and looked good, but the minute they opened their mouth it was all over. The arrogance and self absorbed that many are involved in when they have the "Colt Model" look makes them unattractive on all levels in my opinion. I have also seen some control freaks(man beaters) that looked good but are still unsexy when you realize this about them. Don't get me wrong. I am not talking about the kind that can go on in a good session with a Dom/Master. I'm talking about the kind that isolates you from society and controls so much about you that you are nothing but a mindless automaton. How would you be able to act on what your Dom/Master wants if you are so controlled that you can't anticipate what he wants or needs from you to be who he is? I am talking about the Dom/Master that is all about malice and evil when he is in a session or living his life. The ones that get into an argument with you over nothing and use it as an excuse to beat you and not in the good way. These are the kind of people that you read about in the papers that meet someone on the Internet and then kill them and nobody knows about it until months or years later. I am talking about the serial killers and the ones that are very close to it! I am talking about the kind of man that outside the bedroom you can't talk to them or anything. These are the kind i don't necessarily find sexy or attractive. However, many times these are the type that have been prevalent in the "Colt Model" looking Dom/Masters that i have met.
I personally have always liked men form 35/40 - 59/60 ish to be the sexiest men that I could be with. The 65yo that looks and acts younger is just as appealing to me as the 40yo :Colt Model" that you see in the leather bars standing around and posing. I have often wondered where this proverbial camera is that is out there taking their pictures when I see those types in the bar. An older Master/Dom has the experience and talent that a younger man doesn't have in training aspect and giving what a slave needs to be himself. They have been there and done that and know what will happen with the training methods they use and what woks best. They are usually more stable and grounded in what the leather community is and about. They know that it isn't a 24/7 porno movie. And when you are out of the Dom/sub mode you can talk to them and relate to them. Thus, increasing the bond between you and making you feel proud to be their property or boy. If you want to be a spiritless, unfeeling thing, then by all means find that total jerk "colt Model" master if you want. If it doesn't matter how you are treated, then it is a sad day for you as far as I'm concerned. I want a Master/SIR that i can work out with and do things with and have a good time with. I don't want one that will only be interested in me when he is ready to get off. If that were the case he would be better off investing in a good leather porno collection. I want a Master/SIR that i can go to when I have a concern, or something is happening where i work or in my family. These types of Masters are very hard to find and they are usually the older ones that exude that masculinity and sexual energy i was talking about earlier. The kind of Master/Dom you can look at and know that you will be safe and he is concerned about you emotionally as well as physically. Like i said I would think that since that is usually the kind you find in men in their 40's- their 60's ish, then there would not be as much dicrimination toward Masters/Dom's as there would be from Master/Doms. to the slave/subs. But from all indications it seems to be about the same. Well I have gone on long enough about this for NOW. Maybe in another entry. That being said, as usual, if you have any comment or are a Master that is interested in me, contact me at raven15@consolidated.net. Bye for now!