You Did That on Purpose.......Which is a Good Thing!

There seems to be some confusion on what it means to be a Master or slave. Through my recent discussions with both, it seems to be a source of consternation. People often associate the word Master and slave with how a person likes to have sex. While that is certainly part of it, it isn't the whole of it. When people think of the word Master, they immediately think of a dominate personality trait that defines them. That can be dangerous to assume such. There are some people that are very submissive in their career, yet when they come home they become very dominant and agressive. The same can be said of slaves. They can be very dominate and agressive in their careers, but become 100% submissive once they are at home. I don't know how many times i have heard of slaves going home with Masters and once they got home they became the submissive to the shock of the slave. And Vice versa from what I have been told. Being gay, we learn from an early age to hide our true selves for fear of rejection or violence. Sometimes that becomes an intergral part of us, to our detriment. I think this is where the gamers come in. They have a hard time being honest with themselves. But that is another subject for a different entry. In order to define if someone is a slave or a Master you must not only look at the word but at what purpose it conveys. The Purpose of a Master is to be served and pleased however he determines that should happen. He also has a Purpose of taking care of another human beings wellfare-ie: His slave.He is also to be giving. By that I mean that he should give the right amount of dominence that a slave needs and wants so that their is a Mutual exchange of needs and wants. That isn't to say that a Master can't be all about himself. There are some slaves that want a Master that is all about himself and enjoy that. however as i said, the Master's purpose is also the slave's wellfare. That means that while a slave may turn over his paycheck to his Master, the Master has an obligation to put what is left after his half of bills and expenses into a savings account for the slave so that they will have a nest egg should something happen. To many times i have seen Masters that want their slaves to work and give them their money to support the Master in a lifestyle he wants to be used to with little or no regard for the slave and his future. That is terribly wrong and isn't the purpose of the Master.
The same can be said of the slave. If you look at the word slave in the dictionary is says "{ a person that is owned as property by another human being.}" While that is a good definition it isn't stating the purpose. The purpose should aslo be included in the definition. The purpose would be to serve and please his Master in a way that the Master wants. That can be sexually as well as domestically, which is usually the case. With that in mind both the slave and Master should do these things 100% and with maturity.A slave should want to serve and please his Master because they enjoy making others happy and get sa sense of pride in that accomplishment. The purpose of a slave is also not to be a burden to his Master. Which means that he should be ready, willing, and able to help with the expenses of the household. That can mean working or having a source of income. Whether it is a trust find, disability check or 401k. the slave is to make a Masters life easier. I think if everyone went by the Purpose as a definition, there would be alot less of the B.S. that is played out in the rooms. The next question is how far are you , as a slave or Master, willing to go to be in that kind of relationship. That is cause for another entry. That being said, as usual if you have a comment or a subject you want to address send it to Raven15@consolidated.net That is also how a Master that is interested in me can get in touch with me. Have a great day!