Take Off The Glasses.....They're Rose Colored

It seems that there has been allot said in the chat rooms I visit about real and reality.Of course the number one complaint by both the Masters and the slaves is that the other isn't real. I'm not going to get into that issue right now and may at a later date. However, I would like to talk about another REAL issue. The issue of reality. I see it all the time in the advertisements in the chat rooms. " Sub seeks 24/7/365 as a dungeon slave caged, collared, and shackled." or a Master advertising " Wanted 24/7/365 slaved, cbt,tt, flogging, caged, collared, and gagged. will be kept naked.". I'm sure you have come across them as I have. The problem with these ads is that they aren't real. Don't get me wrong, the ads themselves are real but what they are advertising isn't. You see there is the funny thing that gets in the way.....Life! It would be nice if these conditions could actually hold up but they really can't. Unless of course you are a Master Millionaire or a slave trust fund baby, and there are a few. But these are the exceptions to the rule and a rarity. There are things that have to be done. What seems to be advertised is nothing more than a 24hr porno that doesn't exist.. There may be a few who disagree with me, but lets face it, the laundry has to get done, the yard has to be mowed, and you aren't going to be able to do that naked without getting arrested unless you are way out in the country. The bills have to be paid, the groceries have to be bought, and there is the cooking and cleaning and all the mundane things that make up what we call life. Now granted, in some cases a person can strip naked every time they are in the house, but not outside. Even tall fences have their limits. Especially if there is two-story houses around it. So it would seem that the people who put these ads out there, both Masters or slaves, are really just into a fantasy that they probably will jack off to while you chat with them. Thus really making them not real or knowing what it is to be what they say they want to be or what they are.I say that to say this......
Being a slave is work. It isn't a 24hr porno and it isn't just about sex.It is about submission, work, learning, and yes pleasure. If you are a slave you will have domestic duties to complete. That means cleaning, washing , laundry, and grocery shopping. You will be the one to do the cooking unless the Master likes doing it. There will be dusting and vacuuming to do. Then there is the yard work to be done. Mowing, pruning, and planting. Then to top it off You will have to work more than likely. Yes I said the dreaded four letter word. Unless you are with a Master of means or that won the lottery, you will have to work outside the home as well as all that is needed to be done in the home. You will have to pay your share. of course that depends on what your financial arrangements are with the Master Before you even meet.
Being a Master is a bowl of cherries either. I have asked several Masters what it is to be one. They have different takes on it but there is allot of commonality.What I got out of it is that being a master is pleasure yes, but there is teaching to be done, patience to be had, and work. The Master has to teach the slave how he likes things to be. That takes allot of patience on his part. it is really work to dominate and transform a slave into the way that you want. Not to mention that you have to clothe it, feed it, and make sure he is in good health. so a Master just isn't just sitting on easy street either.
A Master/slave relationship can be a wonderful thing. Just make sure you are living in reality when it comes to getting into one. Each person in the relationship must enrich the other so that you are enhancing the lives of both.
Well I have gone on long enough. As always if you have a topic that you would like to see discussed or a comment on the topic that is, write me at raven15@consolidated.net