Monday, July 14, 2008

Fetishes and Kinks Continued

It seems that my last entry caused a bit of discussion. Both among Masters and slaves and between the two. To the Masters/Sirs that felt I had misspoken about Masters leaving the slave alone and should be with the slave when used for groups, i deeply apologize. I didn't mean to offend anyone. It seems that i forgot about a vital part of the social structure of the leather community. That being the bond between Masters and Sirs. I had a Master approach me and tell me about it. To Him i am deeply grateful for explaining and pointing out this mistake. He explained that it was a great honor to have a Master hand his slave over to another Master. That by doing that, when letting another borrow and use the property in group situations, it is establishing a trust among the Masters. After all, What kind of Master would return property that has been infected or broken to the owning Master? The leather community is considered "on the fringe" of normal society, knowing and being around people of the same mindset is a comforting and positive thing. The same can be said of other slaves that bond when meeting. It seems i should have put in a qualifier about the type of Master i was talking about. I was not talking about the responsible and caring Master that ENTRUSTS his slave to another when he is gone and not around. I was speaking about the kind that has been at leather events and clubs and ties up his slave and then walks off for everyone to use at random. the kind that wants to see their slave suffer immensely and not in a serving way but with maleficence and intentionally doing harm. That is the kind that I think ,in my opinion, should not be a Master. It is the kind of Master or SIR that a slave should be wary of. Now I am not talking about punishment and discipline. That is a horse of a different color. There are slaves and Masters that go to the extreme level as I mentioned in an earlier entry. That is perfectly fine and I fall into that category, just not to the the intensity of blood and damage. I am talking about Masters that obviously disregard the sanctity of life. It says allot about character when A Master regards a slave in this way.

Flogging/Paddling/and Whipping. These are things that are part of being a slave and a Master. It is part of the dominance that arouses a Master as well as the slave. Intensity of the act depends on the slaves limits and if he wants to have them pushed and what the Master wants. Also a masochists health is impacted by this kind of kinky fun. It can leave scars and damage to the body that goes beyond the enjoyment of each other. Pushing limits can be a freeing and exhilarating thing to have happen as a slave. Especially when you see the look of appreciation and love on the Master's face when you go beyond your previous level. Expanding and growing as a person and a Master and slave is human nature. We have a need to learn new things and what a better way then to learn new things about ourselves and the ones we love.

Well I will leave with those thoughts in mind. As always, if you have any comments or are interested in this slave. you can e-mail me at Raven15@consolidated.net

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