Ouirks,Fetishes, and Kinks

I will try on this post to explore kinks and fetishes, To me they are the same thing, but others may argue different. When in a Master/slave relationship, hopefully for a lifetime, both must expect there to some of these things an integral part of the dynamics that makes the relationship work. As I have said before, i don't put limits on myself but few because in reality, the limits of a slave are set by the Master. After all, it is his wants and desires that are most important in the act of serving and being a real slave. Any absolutes that a slave OR a Master has, needs to be discussed before a slave submits or becomes the property of a Master. By absolutes, i mean anything that no matter what ,either the Master or the slave, will stop a session and and may be grounds for the relationship to end. Also for the Master, he should have the skill to know when he is pushing and expanding limits in training and not breaking absolutes and the spirit of the slave.I myself am open to all things but the following absolutes: Children(pedophiles should be terminated), Women (they make me sick), toilet( I am talking about shit eating!)ws is OK, Blood and cutting, and Permanent Marks unrelated to showing ownership. And of course, condoms, until or unless a recent neg testing is shown from within the last 5 days. Slaves should understand that fetishes and kinks , while expanding the horizons, they are a useful tool in the dynamic of the Master/slave relationship.

Groups- There has been allot of things said about groups and sharing of a slave. Some good and some bad. This is an area that should be discussed by the Master and slave before meeting. This is why chat, e-mail and phone conversations are important and becoming a slave should not be entered in lightly. If a Master want to share his slave all the time or a slave wants to be shared all the time , then to me it says something about the relationship and the two parties. To me it means that neither the Master nor he slave is ready to commit and appreciate the gift of service and the gift of ownership. How ever, i have heard that some Masters use groups for training and or punishment. The theory being that when a slave is tied down and gang fucked it will show him his place and what he is as property. The punishment for not obeying as a hint of what could happen again if the slave does not correct his behavior. In the case of a Master joining a session it would be a case of training. I myself am not into the group thing as a whole, but can see a Master using it as punishment, status re-enforcement, or training. I have heard of Masters that will have a slave suck cock from several Masters and other slaves to teach them how to do it to their satisfaction and deep throat. If a Master is going to use his slave with others then he has an obligation to the slave to protect him from harm and his health. A slave can look at a Master's property when meeting and see how well it is treated and taken care of to get idea how he will be as property. If a Master is going to let others use his slave then he should be there the entire time of his slaves use. If not, then anything could happen to the slave. The Master runs the risk of another doing something that will break the slaves spirit and forever be lost. As I said earlier, actions can demonstrate the level of maturity and commitment that exists in the relationship. I have heard of Masters that have taken slaves to bars/clubs/leather events and parties and after restraining the slave and gagging him , walks off and goes visiting and socializing leaving the slave to fend for himself. Lets face it, there won't be much fending off of harm if the Master is not right there by his side telling him he is safe and making sure he is. Condoms should always be used in this case and it is up to the slave's Master to make sure they are by being there!!! As well as making sure there is nothing done to harm his property in any way. That being said, i don't care for group or 3=way action but can see it as a useful tool if implemented properly.

Fists and Dildos- A word of caution here when it comes to fisting. A slave must be worked up to this service and not something to be done right off the bat. it take time and some patients to be able to serve in this manor. The same can be said of anal insertion of dildos(especially the huge ones) and butt plugs. There is nothing like the look of pleasure on a Master's face while he is inserting dildos and fists into a restrained slave while he moans from pleasure and pain. The pleasure a slave gets from serving his Master this wayis satisfying to both.

Well i will talk later on this subject of fetishes and kink. After all whole books have been written on it and I don't have the luxury of that, nor the pay-Ha Ha_ for it so I will end there. As always if you have any comments or information, you can reach me at raven15@consolidated.netOr yahoo IM phantomraven12001 is the id. Any Masters that want to talk to me can reach me the same way SIRS.