Thursday, December 25, 2008

To Be Or Not To Be.....There's the Rub

Well it seems that my "Down the Rabbit Hole" entry has caused quite a stir among the Master/Doms and sub/slaves that I am in contact with. The subject was reality and all that that entailed. The fact that slaves were ignored after talking of meeting and Vice Versa. I forgot to mention the slaves that financially can't up and meet a Master across the state or country that becomes ignored. But that isn't why i am writing this entry for you today.
It seems that my Rabbit Hole entry cause some Master/SIRS and slave/subs to feel insulted, while others thought i have nailed it right on the head. This gave me pause to think and wonder why the difference. With my curiousity peeked, I had to ask around and see if I could find the answer. And, amazingly, i think I did. At least as far as i'm concerned I see the reason. As I said in the entry, reality is subjective and so has different meanings for different people. That being said, let me explain. It seems that alot fo Masters/slaves were insulted because they showed up at these meetings, and yet were ignored afterward. They couldn't understand why. Afterall, they showed up, and didn't that let the other party know they were real. With this new concern about reality i started looking into it. I have come to some shocking conclusions and misconceptions that i and many have. Just because you show up at these meetings for a session doesn't neccesarily mean you are real according to many of my sources. After hearing the explinations they gave I have to agree. ok, so you agree to meet and you show up. now you are in a session and your fantasy is being fulfilled. The problem lies with the fact that you are just going through the motions. The fantasy turned you on, but the reality makes you go through the motions to justify a means of meeting. That goes for both sides of the coin as far as I'm concerned. A Master that gets off simply because he is hearing what he wants to hear and is going through the motions to hear it isn't a real Master/Dom as far as i'm concerned. The same applies to a slave that says what a Master wants to hear and they want to hear them saying to a Master/Dom to get off, isn't any more real thatn if each were watching a Leather porno. It is the intensity and belief in what you are doing that makes you real or not. It isn't the fact that you showed up. When a Master goes through the domination motions and really isn't causing the sub to submit, then is he really a Master/Dom? And the slave/sub that says what a Master/Dom wants to hear but doesn't really mean it or believe realy a slave/sub? I DON"T think so. A real Master knows when he is really dominating and making a slave submit. They are the ones that are truly natural born Masters/Doms and are real. The same goes for slaves/subs. The ones that are really made to submit and love it and mean what they tell a Master/Dom are real and not motioners as i call them. It reminds me of the old joke where the woman says in monotone....."".stop stop your killing me you are so big"....the sarcastic refference can apply here. A Master that doesn't really amke a sub submit wethere they like it or not isn't any more reall that a slave that isn't made to submit to something they don't agree with is a slave. i guess what I'm trying to say is that the ppl that are living a fantasy will say and do what ever it takes to get off. The Real Masters and slaves will need and want the extreme of a play session and live it daily as a part of their life.
well as usual if you have any comments you can send them to raven15@consolidated.net and if yu are a real Master you can reach me at the same address if you want a real slave.

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