Sunday, December 14, 2008

If We Were Only like Dorian Grey

The story goes that Dorian Grey made a deal with the devil. His portrait would age rather than he but he was to never look upon it or he would die. That was the way that he stayed youthful and handsome for well over a hundred years. To bad we can't be like that in real life. Age has got to be one of the most irritating things to have to deal with.And the M/s community is not immune to it. What i am talking about is something that I have mentioned before. Older Dom/Masters that only look at a twink for a sub/slave. I have talked with several Masters and they all don't look at a boy unless he is under 30. This is a source of concern for those of us slaves that are older. I was in a chat room the other day and a sub mentioned that if you don't get owned in your forties you might as well give up. That you don't have a chance. Well i have news for him, Masters/Dom's don't even look at sub/slaves in their forties. and barely once they turn thirty. It amazes me when i hear a Dom/Master complain that they don't have anything in common with their boy. What do you expect when there is 30-40yrs difference in ages! I love Masters in their forties and fifties. Many older slaves do as well. What is wrong with a Dom/sub relationship when they are around the same age? Is it so wrong to have a Master/Dom that is a year or so older than the sub/slave? They say that the leather M/s relationship doesn't last very long. Perhaps it is because of this rampant age difference that pervades the community. Finding a Dom/Master that is around your own age would seem to be a better match than the bigger age differences. You can, after all, relate to each other outside of the bedroom and be able to build a life together. It would also seem that if we start looking for those around our age then the game playing would be held down to a minimum. There would be less fear involved as i mentioned in my last blog. A Master/Dom would know that the sub/slave was with him because of who he is and not what he has materialistically. That the sub is there because he wants to be serving him. He doesn't have to worry about the slave being there and looking for another Dom/Master while he is serving him. Sub/slaves would not be after a Dom/Master's money or things. Then the true Dom/sub, Master/slave relationship can happen. The needs of each party are met without anything getting in the way. Perhaps then there would be more love between Doms/subs and Masters/slaves. That being said, it would allow for longer relationships to develope and last. I, myself, am looking for a lifetime commitment. i don't care about how much money he has or doen't have, but that he is the dom/Master that i need in my life as a natural slave. Then there will be a sense of peace that is felt by a sub/slave when he has the Master that he was meant to have and owned. well that is all I have for now i will try to post more often in the future. As always, If you have any thoughts or comments send them to me at raven15@consolidated.net or if you are a Master that would be interested in having me as yours.

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