With the New Year comes alot of people that make promises and resolutions. Many you know, of course, will be and are expected to be broken. Lose 10 lbs.,Drink less alcohol, and work out more often seem to be the top ones that I can think of. Breaking these promises and resolutions has the impact of singularity attached to them. They only effect the person making the promises. That in itself isn't a big deal. But what about the ones that you make to another person? I'm talking about the ones that you make to another person that you will be there for them. I am not talking about something so serious as infidelity, but more so in the art of communication. In my last entry I talked about a man that had me pvt. him and call him on the phone. He assured me he was real and that he was a Dom/Master/SIR looking for a sub/slave/boy and that i should not doubt his sincerety in the matter. As if to prove this he and I exchanged IM services and added each other to our prospective contact lists. This particular service allows you to show others when you are online and available for chat. In the course of our conversation i assured him that every time that I came online I would make sure that he would be able to see that I was on and that I would be available for him to chat with. He, on the otherhand, assured me of the same and that anytime he saw me online he would chat with me one on one to get to know each other. Or so i thought. I have seen him several times in the reg chat room and said hello to him in a respectful sub manner. To which, I was ignored and then when I would make sure that he knew I was online with the chat service, he wouldn't contact me. Several times I would log onto the chat service expecting to chat with My prospective SIR, only to have him log off the minute that I log on. At first that can be something that happens as a matter of coincidence. Unfortunately that has happened all to often. If you aren't going to back up what you say to someone then don't say it at all. I mean why lie? and if you aren't interested enough in someone, then at least be as I am, and have the balls and be man enough to say "No thank you". Why is it that so many people on the net just lead people on. Doesn't matter if you are str8 or gay, it boils down to not having enough character or breeding to be civil and have manners. The fear of rejection can't keep you from having manners. I have found that several people i know are afraid to live life. You have to live life to have a life, otherwise, you are reacting to life and don't have a life. My word is my Honor. Therefore if I say I am going to do something I will do it. Where has all the honorable men gone?
Well I have been on my soap box enough for today. As usual. If you want to contact me or have any thoughts on the entry you can reach me at raven15@consolidated.net
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