There Are Plenty of Fish in The Sea......But Please Don't Use a Troutline!

Well I have to say that things between me and the interested SIR are progressing nicely. We have Video chatted everyday and I am finding out more and more about him that is amazing. But this chat is about something that I have noticed in the chat rooms. It also applies to the straight world as well as the gay one. It is a phenomanon that is something I think needs to be addressed. I have seen and have known several men in the chat rooms that have a plethera of men on as string like a fisherman and a trout-line. That isn't what Jesus had in mind when He said to be "Fishers of men". They seem to flirt and make pseudo expressions of dying love in the room but really are just afraid to commit to anyone. They say the right thing and do everything like they are going to follow through and meet the Dom or sub and then never quite seem to be able to. I mean, they go so far as to exchange phone numbers and may even call and receive a call from an interested person. Someone that they have led to believe that they are going to be the "One" that is different from all the flakes. The problem is they are one of the flakes, fakes, and liars to begin with. Many times that isn't their intention but works out that way. The fear of rejection and getting hurt is a very powerful thing and very emotional. Especially, when someone has been hurt before. That trust thing is a problem. It has led to the leading on of men and women for thousands of years and yet, we still wonder why. It amazes me the people that "WooHoo, and Slurp" at each other when someone enters the chat room like they are happy to see them, when all the while it is a guise to get their attention and hopefully get them interested in them. When the other is interested and pvts them and wants to exchange information they either do, never to put the information to use, or they find a reason they can't give it out. When that happens they are then amazed when the person goes after someone else and they actually do follow through and contact each other. The ones that are stringing the men along get offended and upset when that happens. They are the first to shout" FAKE" or "LIAR". Which brings me to another phenomanon.....the " I saw him first" syndrome. How dare the other person talk with the one they were interested in and exchange information! Yeah right, and they wonder why they are alone! Suddenly now that they are wanted by someone else they are wanting them and will try to do everything to get them. I really don't have time for someone like that. I know of a Dom who is like that and every one he is stringing along or may even have a one night stand with is his sub and he leads them along. It is sad really. It is also frustrating for the ones that are willing to exchange information and try and start a relationship, albeit a long distance one TO START. That is the key word. They are willing to start off apart but also are willing to work out a way to meet. Then, if it doesn't work out, they know they have done all that they can do and it was just kizmit that they didn't make a go of it. Well that is all I am going to say on the subject for now. As Always if you want to contact me or let me know your reaction to this entry, you can reach me at raven15@consolidated.net have a great day!